Respectfully greeting a dog involves following some general guidelines to ensure the dog feels comfortable and safe. Here are some tips:
Ask for permission
Always ask the dog’s owner for permission before approaching or greeting their dog. Not all dogs are comfortable with strangers or may have specific sensitivities, and the owner knows their dog best.
Approach slowly and calmly
Approach the dog slowly and calmly, avoiding any sudden movements or loud noises that may startle them. Dogs can be sensitive to quick movements and loud sounds, so a slow and gentle approach is best.
Let the dog initiate contact
Allow the dog to approach you, rather than you approaching the dog. You don’t have to extend a closed hand towards the dog at their nose level to let them sniff you – they have an amazing sense of smell and can also smell you without doing this. But do let the dog initiate contact if they are comfortable. It can be helpful to get down on the dogs level, to be less intimidating. Avoid reaching over the dog’s head, as it can be intimidating and most dogs do not like it.
Respect the dog’s body language
Observe the dog’s body language for signs of comfort or discomfort. If the dog is wagging their tail, relaxed, and approaching you with loose body posture, it may indicate they are comfortable. If the dog is showing signs of stress, such as tense body, growling, or trying to move away, it’s best to back off and give them space.
Avoid direct eye contact
Direct eye contact can be intimidating for dogs, so avoid staring at the dog directly. Instead, glance at the dog’s general direction without maintaining prolonged eye contact.
Use gentle touch
If the dog is comfortable with contact, use gentle touch and avoid any rough or sudden movements. Start with petting the dog’s chest or side, rather than their head, as many dogs are sensitive around their face and ears.
Respect the dog’s personal space
Respect the dog’s personal space and avoid overwhelming them with too much physical contact or invading their space. Give them room to move away if they choose to.
Avoid feeding treats without permission
Do not offer treats to the dog without the owner’s permission, as the dog may have dietary restrictions or allergies. Or because the dog guardian simply doesn’t want it.
Listen to the owner’s guidance
If the dog’s owner provides any guidance on how to interact with their dog, be sure to follow their instructions. They know their dog’s behaviour and preferences best.
Remember, not all dogs are comfortable with greetings from strangers, and it’s important to always respect the dog’s comfort level and boundaries. By being patient, gentle, and respectful, you can create positive interactions with dogs and promote safe and enjoyable interactions for both you and the dog.